以前我一直讨厌犯错或失败,总是安于现状不做任何有风险的事情。现在我发现,事情有时确实就像塞翁失马。
What has changed? I view them differently and act upon them differently than I used to. I ask myself: what is the opportunity in this situation? I ask: how will this experience help me in the long run?
到底发生了哪些变化?我换个角度看待它们,采取截然不同的反应。我问自己:这种情况下还有哪些可能性?我又问自己:这次经历对我以后会有帮助吗?
These questions help me to make good use of a situation that may seem negative at first. And by doing this process over and over I am a lot less afraid of making mistakes or failing because I know from my experience that by handling this in a smart way I have gained many benefits and grown as a person over the past years.
类似问题使我能优化处理起初看来不甚乐观的境遇。如此往复,我变得不再害怕犯错或失败,因为我的经验告诉我,多年来理性应对一切已使我受益匪浅。
4. Focus on the small steps you can take.
锁定触手可及的小目标。
“Having a positive mental attitude is asking how something can be done rather than saying it can’t be done.” Bo Bennett
心态积极的人会问怎样才能把事情做好,而不是抱怨事情根本无法着手。”——柏·班奈特
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