我大学毕业后做第一份工作时,老板发现我不会把数据录入莲花1-2-3(莲花公司的电子表格软件——译者注)。莲花1-2-3是个电子表格——你们的爸妈可能知道。他张大嘴说:“连这个都不会,真不知道你怎么进来公司的。” 然后就走出去了。晚上回家我觉得要被炒鱿鱼,然后觉得我什么事都做不好……但事实证明,我只是不会做电子表格而已。如果我当时就能明白不要过分解读,没必要一时难过就否定一切,当时就不会那么焦虑。
I wish I had known about permanence when I broke up with boyfriends. It would’ve been a comfort to know that feeling was not going to last forever, and if I was being honest with myself… neither were any of those relationships.
我跟男朋友提出分手时,要是明白痛苦并不会一直持续就好了。如果我当时知道再难受也会慢慢缓解,如果我能诚实面对自己,就会安慰很多,不过我都没做到。
And I wish I had understood personalization when boyfriends broke up with me. Sometimes it’s not you—it really is them. I mean, that dude never showered.
男朋友和我分手时,我要是懂得不要过分自责就好了。有时真的不是我的错,错的是他们。说了你可能都不信,这家伙从来不洗澡。
And all three P’s ganged up on me in my twenties after my first marriage ended in divorce. I thought at the time that no matter what I accomplished, I was a massive failure.
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