For many months afterward, and at many times since, I was swallowed up in the deep fog of grief—what I think of as the void—an emptiness that fills your heart, your lungs, constricts your ability to think or even to breathe.
他去世后好几个月里,我经常悲伤得无法自已,内心只觉得一片无尽的空虚四处蔓延,占据了五脏六腑,我无力思考,甚至感觉像要窒息。
Dave’s death changed me in very profound ways. I learned about the depths of sadness and the brutality of loss. But I also learned that when life sucks you under, you can kick against the bottom, break the surface, and breathe again. I learned that in the face of the void—or in the face of any challenge—you can choose joy and meaning.
戴夫的死深刻地改变了我。我终于明白了什么叫切肤之痛,也体会到痛失所爱的残酷。但我也明白了,当生活给你当头一棒,堕入悲伤之海,你能做的就是奋力游向水面,大口呼吸。我明白了,即便悲伤至空虚,或是面对巨大挑战,你仍然可以选择快乐和有意义的生活。
I’m sharing this with you in the hopes that today, as you take the next step in your life, you can learn the lessons that I only learned in death. Lessons about hope, strength, and the light within us that will not be extinguished.
我跟你们分享亲人离世的感受,是希望能在你们走上社会时就能理解失去的痛苦,明白什么是希望、力量和心中永不熄灭的火苗。
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